In just four seconds, this gif shows you all four seasons. Look for the snowman, bees, birds, and leaves. This clever gif was created by Delft, the Netherlands-based designer Dennis Hoogstad. *clap clap clap
via [Dribble]
In just four seconds, this gif shows you all four seasons. Look for the snowman, bees, birds, and leaves. This clever gif was created by Delft, the Netherlands-based designer Dennis Hoogstad. *clap clap clap
via [Dribble]
If there’s one book that has completely changed the way I parent it’s The Whole-Brain Child: 12 Revolutionary Strategies to Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind, Survive Everyday Parenting Struggles, and Help Your Family Thrive by authors Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D. Before I read this book Sam and I felt somewhat lost as parents, when Parker would throw a fit we would often resort to yelling or putting him in a time-out. Parker would be so angry, he’d kick and scream, and at the worst, he’d bite or scratch us. We knew we weren’t doing something right, but what was it?
The Whole Brain Child explains in layman’s terms how the brain works. As it states in the introduction, “While the book is certainly scientifically based, you aren’t going to feel like you’re in science class or reading an academic paper. Yes, it’s brain science, and we’re absolutely committed to remaining true to what research and science demonstrate. But we’ll share this information in a way that welcomes you in, rather than leaving you out in the cold.”
Chapter 1 starts off by talking about parenting with the left and right side of the brain in mind. What’s going on inside our brains? How do the different parts of our brain work together? First, there’s the left side of the brain that helps you think logically. Then, there’s the right side of the brain that’s more emotion based. If our goal is to help our children use their whole brain, both their left-brain logic and their right-brain emotion should integrate, and we should provide our children with experiences where they can create connections between the different parts. Why isn’t integration easy? Because our children’s brains haven’t had time to develop. A person’s brain isn’t considered fully developed until the mid-twenties!
Chapter 2 goes into how to integrate the left and the right hemispheres. The left brain loves order, it’s logical and literal. The right side is more intuitive and emotional. Now here’s the interesting part. “In terms of development, very young children are right-hemisphere dominant, especially during their first three years.” They live completely in the moment, unable to use logic and words to express their feelings. As they grow older, when they’re conflicted, they may still start off with emotion. So first, you connect your right side of the brain to theirs by asking your child to explain what he’s feeling and then you echo back their emotions. That way, they feel as though you understand them, that they’re being heard. “When a child is upset, logic often won’t work until we have responded to the right brain’s emotional needs. We call this emotional connection ‘attunement,’ which is how we connect deeply with another person and allow them to ‘feel felt.'”
After that part, we redirect to the left side. This means we logically explain to them why things can’t be and/or provide realistic alternatives. This is the time to talk about their behavior and when we can discuss solutions. It’s called “connect and redirect” and though it won’t always work, especially when your child is past a point of no return or is overly tired and hungry, it’s a thoughtful way to parent.
Here’s an example of how we used this technique recently. Parker was going to sleep over at his grandma’s house but forgot to bring his bag of candy. He wanted to give a piece to grandma. As we were approaching her house he started to scream, “Go back! I forgot my candy! I have to give a piece to grandma!” It seemed like no big deal to us but to Parker it meant everything. Instead of turning the car around or telling him, “No way” we said, “Parker, you really want to give halmuni (grandma in Korean) some candy, don’t you? You think she’ll like it right?” He nodded yes. Then Sam said, “Well, halmuni can’t have too much sugar because too much sugar is bad for you.” To which Parker replied, “Ok, I understand.” It worked! There was no screaming and he didn’t throw a fit.
There are many more tips on how to parent in this book but I wanted to share the “connect and redirect” approach because it’s been effective in my family! After we connect with Parker on an emotional level, we then reason with him on a logical one and it seems to calmly resolve our problems. In fact, it’s been a full week since we started implementing this technique and we haven’t had one major blow up.
Have you read this book? What did you think of it?
How time has flown by! It’s been three and a half years since I first discovered the work of artist Anna Gillespie when I stumbled upon her figurative sculpture Taste the Rain. (It’s still one of favorite sculptures of all time.) Using bark and mixed media, she created a life-size, six-and-a-half foot tall human completely immersed in nature. I was surprised to find out that the piece was part of an ongoing series of work using natural materials that fell from trees like leaves, bark, and acorns. As she told me then, “For this piece, I found the bark in a wood near my home in the south west of England, from a fallen tree. All these works try to express a moment of connection to nature and this particular piece is about trying to draw the viewer into recalling what it feels like to stand out in the rain and engage their senses.”
A few weeks after that post, I wrote another one on her full body of work. That was back in 2012, and since that time, Gillespie has created even more astonishing figurative sculptures. The pieces here were all made with bronze and most of them are as new as last year. She’s now showing a selection of her work in a new exhibition starting May 16 at Beaux Arts in Bath, UK. Makes me want to take a trip out there just to see these in person.
Above: Between The Shores, Bronze Ed. of 9 H:78 x W:85 x D:22cm
Trust, Bronze, Ed. of 6, H:196 x W:68 x D:46cm
Let It Rain, Bronze, Ed. of 6, H:82 x W:28 x D:28cm
The Ties That Bind, Bronze, Ed. of 6, H:47 x W:72 x D:16cm
Rescue Me, Bronze, Ed. of 6, H:105 x W:87 x D:16cm
Dappled Sleep, Bronze, Ed. of 6, H:135 x W:45 x D:36cm
Book me a ticket to Mexico! This has got to be the most minimalist hotel I’ve ever seen. Called Mar Adento Hotel, in San Jose del Cabo, Mexico it was designed by Mexican architect Miguel Ángel Aragonés and features 205 rooms that are equipped with a special tablet that lets you customize every detail of your stay, from the lighting and curtains to the room service. You can tell that the hotel was made with simplicity and elegance in mind, given their unapologetic use of the color white and floor to ceiling glass.
Here’s how one visitor explained his experience: “The design of this structure is completely breathtaking. Every visual detail is thoughtfully considered in both daylight and night. A mentally relaxing monochromatic space by day and a vibrant colorful mosaic once night falls. The bodies of water pumped in throughout the property are remarkable and pristinely cleaned daily. You will honestly feel like you’re in the future.”
Sam and I debating on whether we should take a trip to London or Cabo this year. After seeing this hotel, guess which one I’m leaning towards?
via [Contemporist]
Photos by Joe Fletcher
Relatively new to the home-exchange scene is this site called Behomm (pronounced “be home”) Tired of sifting through tens of thousands entries on other house swapping sites like HomeExchange, Eva Culduch and Agust Juste, both graphic designers, decided to find a niche. Behomm, with 2,100 members, is an invite only home exchange community built just for creatives. (I’m looking at you designers and visual artists.) The home exchange is different than VRBO or Airbnb because it’s a non-commercial transaction where two parties agree to exchange homes for free for a specific amount of time. VRBO, Airbnb, Kid require money to be exchanged.
The catch is that Behomm is invitation only. You can register to be invited either by a friend who’s already on Behomm or by filling out an application. You’ll be asked everything from what kind of creative you are (It’s quite an extensive list, photographers are included as well as design lovers), your work website, the URL of your Linkedin, a description of your professional work. You’ll then be prompted to provide a minimum of six photo of your home’s interior.
Looking through the pictures on Behomm you can’t help dream of living in one of these well-designed abodes. While some are quite minimalist with furniture in all black and white, still others are quirky and colorful, full of life.
One day I’d love to redo the inside of my house. I imagine staying in one of these homes will give me the inspiration to start a new home improvement project.
Though the sign-up process may sound like a lot of trouble, if selected, you’ll be handsomely rewarded with your pick of some spectacular homes. Once you’re accepted, you can try Behomm for one year free. Full membership requires paying either 95 euros for one year (a little over $109) or 170 euros ($196) for two years. (On a side note, for those parents with children, Kid & Coe recently launched their own exchange program.
More information can be found on NY Times.
Here’s an excerpt from a book I’m reading right now on photography: The Visual Toolbox – 60 Lessons for Stronger Photographs by David Duchemin.
“A couple of years ago I tried to answer, for myself, this simple question: What makes a great photograph? My own reply was contained in three elements-lines, light, and moments. What we do with those three is everything in a photograph. If every student of photography learned to ask three general questions before they pressed the shutter button, their work would improve faster than any new piece of gear could ever do in a lifetime. Those three questions for me are: What is the light doing? What are my lines doing? Is this moment the most powerful?”
Photo by Steve McCurry via Magnum.
INDIA. Bombay. 1993. A mother and child ask for alms through a taxi window during the monsoon.
This week, I thought I’d show you some pictures of the boys as well as some art that’s hanging inside my home. I’m always looking for the next print to add to my collection. One day, I dream of collecting originals but for now I’ll settle on limited edition or open edition prints.
Above: One of our neighbors is growing this shrub, called crimson bottlebrush, in their front yard. The flowers are red and arranged in spikes on the ends of branches. I love their vibrant color.
Strangely, this week, Logan didn’t want to go on walks. Instead, he was crying by the car because he wanted to climb inside of it to watch Toy Story. (Now that guy loves Pixar movies…wonder where he gets that from.)
On one of the days this week, the sky was this beautiful pale blue color. Not a cloud in the sky. #nolightroom
Mommy and Parker’s Nikes. Yes, we’re that brand loyal.
I like this picture because it looks like Parker is levitating over our living room couch.
Earlier this week, Sam was in Vegas for a conference. He brought home these presents for the kids. Minion fans with candy inside.
Charlie trying to give us his most regal look.
One of our neighborhood kids came by on her scooter wearing hot pink pants and these cool light up shoes. (File this under, “Where were these shoes when I was a kid?”)
In the mail this week, I received this print called Blue Morpho, Double Helix by Rafael Araujo. Now I need to find a place for it inside my home.
Yesterday, Sammy gave Logan a much needed haircut. Can you believe that Sam learned how to cut hair on YouTube?
These are the four prints hanging inside my home office. Clockwise from top they’re from Audrey Kawasaki, Amy Sol, and then there’s two from Stella Im Hultberg.
Inside our house, hanging right by the doorway, is this piece from an old college friend Pei-San Ng. Called Matches: Passion, it’s made from approximately 2,500 matches. I “love” it!
Happy Friday and welcome to another week of Fun Links of the Week! As always, I’m gathering up the most interesting links out there, especially the ones that relate to art, design and photography. Of course, I sprinkle in some style and business links in, as well, just to add some flavor. Though I try to keep things relevant, just a quick heads up, you might find some slighter older links in here, too.
What are you to this weekend? I’m hanging out with some old friends at Balboa Park tomorrow and then we’re celebrating my nephew Riverton’s second birthday at my sister’s house on Sunday. Lots of fun up ahead. Just crossing my fingers no one gets sick!
Have a great weekend!
Are you listening to Embedded? The new podcast takes a story from the news and goes deep. (I like the host, Kelly McEvers, who’s also the co-host of All Things Considered.) This morning, I heard part of the El Salvador father-daughter story and almost cried. (Here’s the transcript.)
Now I don’t feel so bad about missing Coachella this year.
New York buildings look strangely beautiful in desolate landscapes.
I want these Secret Wood rings (especially the “snow”-filled ones like Enchanted Forest).
How clever is this rocket desk lamp? (via NotCot)
I didn’t know I needed this until now.
What are creatives’ favorite words?
My phone deserves this sleek gold stand.
Comcast just bought DreamWorks. Here’s co-founder Jeffrey Katzenberg’s story.
My minimalist-loving heart wants to live here.
Art + Photography lovers, here’s the ultimate Tumblr list.
Old barn turned modern home. (When can I move in?)
I finally found a good reason to (maybe) join Snapchat.
Facebook had a good week and now I hear one of my other favorite companies did, too. (Buy, buy, buy!)
They had me at minimalist.
Beauty junkies, here’s some breaking news.
Photo, Spring by Thomas Roux. Taken in Ménerbes, France.
Just how creative are some individuals in this world? How did a photographer capture that moment? These are the questions I asked myself over and over during the nearly eight years I was editor-in-chief at My Modern Met. Every day, I had the rare privilege of writing about and curating art, design and photography and I fell head over heals for each of the three disciplines. (My heart ultimately led me to favor photography.) Photos have a way of leaving an indelible mark on your mind, they change your very being, providing you with a new perspective or a giving you a new appreciation for life.
Today, I’d like to share 21 images that have ultimately led me to want to become a photographer. These photos do everything from make me see the beauty in the everyday to nudge me to live in the present. While some photos capture the amazing feeling of love, still others tell a fascinating story of a foreign culture.
I hope you enjoy this collection.
Above: After living in Nepal and exploring Tibet and the Himalayas for more than a decade, photographer Hamid Sardar-Afkhami decided he would travel to outer Mongolia to document the nomadic tribes and their unique way of life. Sardar took photos of the Dukha people, Mongolia’s last nomadic reindeer herders. The Dukha tribe is quickly disappearing. Only about 44 Dukha families remain, or between 200 to 400 people. In the 1970s, it’s estimated that there was a population of about 2,000 reindeer but that number has since dwindled to about 600. Here, a young child rests her head on one of the reindeer.
This striking black and white photo of a man feeding ducks and swans in the snow is one you just can’t get out of your mind. It was shot by photographer Marcin Ryczek in Krakow, Poland. The contrast between river and bank as well as the framing are just perfect.
This is an iconic and powerful portrait of composer and pianist Igor Stravinsky by Arnold Newman. The piano cleverly appears like a large musical note. Simple and minimalist but powerful.
Tim Walker shot his first Vogue fashion story at the age of 25, and has been contributing his magical images to the magazine ever since. He’s known for fantastical settings and theatrical characters.
This photo of a man reading while an elephant leans into him looks like it was taken from the pages of a storybook. If you look closely, in the background you can see other elephants roaming the land. In 2010, this serene photo was shot in Chiang Mai, Thailand by famed photojournalist Steve McCurry.
Back in 2011, when the Vancouver Canucks lost in game 7 of the Stanley Cup Finals, it sent their home city into chaos. Riots broke out, leaving buildings destroyed, cars burned and even people injured. Seemingly out of the blue, photojournalist Richard Lam was able to capture a truly unique image of a couple kissing.
I discovered the photos of Alex Stoddard when he was just 17-years-old. By that time, he had already created an impressive body of work like this one of a cotton cloud coming out of his mouth.
This hilarious photo of a fallen superhero is by Flickr favorite Rosie Hardy. She’s not just a master of self-portraits, she creates stunning portraits of other people as well.
Photographer Vitor Schietti uses long exposures to create light paintings all around trees. The lights appear to rain down from the branches!
This photo, called Felix, Gladys and Rover was shot in New York in 1974 by photographer Elliott Erwitt. While at first glance you think you’re looking at two pairs of human feet and then a small dog, you’d be surprised to find out that the first pair of legs actually belongs to a large dog! The advertising and documentary photographer is known for his black and white photos of funny and ironic situations.
Hawaii-based photographer Dallas Nagata White captured this incredibly “hot” kiss by an active lava flow. Her husband dipped her into a dramatic kiss as rain began falling. There’s hardly any retouching, the photographer only adjusted the color contrast and sharpened the image. This photo leaves you breathless. “When we say this was a spontaneous shot, we mean the kissing pose was,” White states. “We’d all first taken our ‘Look at us, standing next to lava in the rain’ power stance photos, but after Ed and I had taken a couple, he said, ‘One more,’ and dipped me in a kiss without warning. It was the only kiss shot we took that night.”
Jason Lee is a father who creatively captures his kids. Using a bit of Photoshop, he makes silly scenes come to life, like this one of his two girls playing around with duct tape.
Migrant Mother, shot in 1936 by photographer Dorothea Lange is known as the iconic image of the Great Depression. Florence Owens Thompson, was a 32-year-old destitute pea picker in California who had seven children. You can just see the worry, of how she’s going to feed her children, etched on this mother’s face.
Elena Shumilova is a Russian mother who takes stunning photos of her children with the animals on her farm. This one, of her son gently touching their large dog, shows the sweet friendship between the two.
Moscow-based Russian photographer Katerina Plotnikova is known for her breathtaking fairy tale-like photos of women with live animals. This one, of a bear kissing a woman’s hand looks like it’s been Photoshopped but it hasn’t. While these encounters may seem dangerous, they’re actually quite safe because the photographer enlists the help of professional animal trainers.
Kirsty Mitchell is one of those photographers who works tirelessly to create storybook-like photos in-camera. She, along with a dedicated team, work on lighting, make-up and wardrobe to make enchanting worlds come to life. This photo, of a women in an ombre dress standing in a lavender field, was one of her earlier works.
For the 2012 National Geographic photo contest, British-born, Thai-based photographer Ashley Vincent won the overall prize and first place in the wildlife category, with this fun image of an tigress shaking off water while at the zoo.
Photographer Chris Morgan shot this magnificent macro photograph of a hummingbird n 2011 at Bosque De Paz, a 3,000 acre privately-owned biological reserve in the middle of Costa Rica. He got a clear shot of the eye and captured the beautiful colors of the feathers.
Chinese photographer Fan Ho captured the everyday life of Hong Kong throughout the 1950s and 1960s. This image is captivating because it captures light and shadow in an artistic way. The shot is called Approaching Shadow and it was taken in 1954.
Using a long exposure, the path of the kayak paddle over serene lakes is brought to life. As photographer Stephen Orlando of Ontario, Canada states, “I’m fascinated with capturing motion through time and space into a single photograph. Using LED lights with custom color patterns and long exposure photography, I’m able to tell the story of movement. This technique reveals beautiful light trails created by paths of familiar objects. These light trails have not been artificially created with Photoshop and represent the actual paths of the objects.”
Hungarian photographer Noell S. Oszvald‘s conceptual black and white photos are striking. This one, of a bird flying in the air while a woman hunches over with her hands over her eyes is unforgettable.
If the trailer is any indication of how the full movie is going to be, we’re in for a wild ride. The new Oliver Stone movie, starting Joseph Gordon-Levitt, comes to theaters September 16 and I have a gut feeling that it’s going to one of those must-watch movies of the year. I like what CNET wrote about Edward Snowden, “It will take a long time before those who write history decide whether Snowden is a hero or a villain.”
Joseph Gordon-Levitt was perfectly cast for the lead role. Can’t wait to see this!
via [Kottke]